Good friends can last a lifetime
The true soul of humanity always shines the brightest in times of tragedy.

That was apparent last week when one of my closest friend’s mom passed away unexpectedly. I have been friends with her since I was in grade school and even though she moved to Texas 10 years ago, I still feel as close to her as ever. Naturally, I jumped aboard an airplane so I could be there and help in any way I could.

She has a great husband and two, wonderful children, so some would question why I would travel at a time when I am extremely busy and costs are so high. It is simple. She would do the same for me. There was no discussion on if I should go, just when. We may not talk on a regular basis or see each other but once or twice a year, but we have always been there for each other when it mattered.

I have had several big and small bumps in my life and she was always the first person to drop everything to help out. I, in turn, have been there for some pretty bad times in her life. There was a point in her life where she was not herself. I was sad to see her like that, and prayed that she would emerge from the murky water she was treading. Through the bad times, I still remained by her side and helped as much as I could. My wife has also grown close to her and always encourages me to do my part.

She met her future husband in Texas while visiting relatives years ago and eventually moved there along with her parents. Although I miss her, I have to admit that it probably saved her life.

The man she met is a true cowboy who seemed to be climbing out of his own hole and the rest is history. He has been the best thing that ever happened to her. His no-nonsense, conservative approach to life is what she needed all along. Together, they have built a family and set of friends that others dream of. While no road is void of bumps, there is no doubt that they are on the right map.

While visiting her and her family, I witnessed how true friends should be. Their hospitality and graciousness in time of need was awesome. They welcomed complete strangers in their houses as out of town family arrived for the funeral. I met some great people while I was there and a small part of me now wishes that we lived there just to share their friends and the bonds that they share.

As I sit and look at the big picture, I am thankful that she and her family are in our lives. I consider them family and would do anything for them.